I don't have much more I want to say at the moment. I'm still processing everything. I will say that I'm glad I got back to Maine for her birthday party as I won't be able to afford the flight back for the funeral. Anyway, it's probably better to remember her as she was last April 15th.
Funeral arrangements are in progress but she won't actually be buried until spring. There will be another service at that time and my goal will be to fly out to Maine for that.
Apparently she knew her time was about up as, on New Years, she told one of the relatives that she wasn't going to need the TV anymore. She lost a son a few years ago and her sister about a month ago and it was just getting harder for her. It was her time.